1.) The action or process of formally consulting or discussing
2.) A meeting with an expert or professional, such as a medical doctor, in order to seek advice
Did you know that a tonsillectomy entails removing one’s tonsils?
This is what I learned yesterday from my pre-operative consultation.
The question I had asked after the nurse practitioner tried to speedily push me out the door in order to get to happy hour at a reasonable time was: So what is going to happen in the surgery?
“You’ll get your tonsils taken out,” she replied.
Um…knew that. Let me rephrase: How the fucking hell is it going to be done? Pliers? Hedge clippers? The Expelliarmus charm from Harry Potter?
“Oh…I don’t know. I’ve never witnessed a tonsillectomy before, but he’s a really good surgeon.”
Well then, I am filled with relief. He will be using the good-surgeon method as opposed to the shit-surgeon one. Phew! Big weight off my even bigger tonsils. Wait, I’m sorry, aren’t you leading my consultation about my tonsillectomy? Shouldn’t you have a basic understanding how such a surgery is performed? Can you at least tell me how long it will take?
“Oh…well, they’ll call you into a room. There’s paperwork to fill out. You’ll have anesthesia. I’m guessing…hmm…90 minutes?”
So is this guess being pulled directly out of your ass or thin air? The distinction is important to me for some reason because otherwise my brain will blow apart into little pieces. Maybe you would like to see that so you can tell future patients what that looks like.
“If that’s all…”
Hold up, hold up…um how long will it take to recover?
Okay, well I read on some blogs written by people who had this saying the first couple of days aren’t so bad, it’s really fifth–
“Tenth,” she interrupts. “Tenth day’s usually hard. You’ll be fine.”
You just said I would recover in a week. Although I feel completely insane, I’m pretty sure there are still only seven days in a week.
“Oh, you are right! Anyway, I don’t want to keep you. You’ll do great.”
Wait..wait…wait. I’m getting anesthesia so is there any time I should stop eating?
“Oh yeah. Yeah, that’s right. Don’t eat after midnight.”
Because I’ll turn into a Gremlin? This might have been something to have told me during our consultation not in this five-second frenzy of quick questioning as you stick one leg out the door.
Here was the consultation:
“You’ll need pain medication, but don’t worry, it’s liquid.”
“You can have milkshakes after the surgery. Vanilla not chocolate.”
“He’s a good surgeon.”
She did listen to my heart.
“Wow. It’s pitter-pattering like a little humming bird.”